20 Signs you have found your Twin Flame

What the H*!! Is a Twin Flame??

I am not a twin flame expert, in fact, I am pretty confident that there are no experts that can fully know the whole truth about TF relationships. My goal is only to tell my journey, share information I learn along the way, and lend LOVE and support to anyone that needs it. I also plan to use this experience to help me grow and continue to have love in my life. There are many websites, blogs, and books dedicated to explaining the dynamics of the twin flame experience, and wherever possible I will note sites and sources for you to explore. I will also share posts of inspiration, quotes, tools, music, etc. that have helped me along the way.

I was introduced to the term “Twin Flame” when my best friend’s mom told her to pass the info on to me. You see, my best friend was actually with me the first time my TF and I met, and when we finally came together years later in a formal union, she told her mom the story. Her mom, who we joked about on many occasions, tends to be a bit of a spiritual zealot, and although she is a lovely woman – she can be a bit “out there” sometimes. Interestingly enough, now I understand her madness.  To be continued…

If you are searching right now for answers, you will learn of many terms in the spiritual realm. These may include Soul Mate, Soul Groups, Twin Flame, Twin Soul, etc. They all have a place in our life, and each one of us has our own story that may include some of these types of relationships. For my purposes, since I already researched for months on my own situation, the Twin Flame relationship is the main theme that runs throughout my blog. The Twin Flame connection is not a soul mate connection. It is far stronger and it works on a deeper level. Meeting a soul mate is a life-changing experience, but meeting your Twin Flame alters every cell of your being. It transforms you and creates an internal storm and you have no choice but to hold on for dear life.

Before I start my twin flame story, here is a compiled list of 20 signs you have found your Twin Flame:

  1. You had dreams or visions of this person and/or your energetic relationship before ever meeting in this lifetime.
  2. Meeting your twin felt like “coming home” to a familiar, long-lost energy. After meeting, you may experience “memories” of other times and places with that person that are not part of this life experience so far.
  3. It is typical for twin flames to be brought together by synchronous and/or cosmic events.
  4. Your twin mirrors your own issues, concerns, and imbalances, but you also complement each other’s skill sets, talents, and capacities. You are the ultimate embodiment of yin/yang.
  5. You feel each other’s symptoms, illnesses, and emotions even when you are not near each other or in communication.
  6. Your functioning is impaired or much less optimal when you are apart from your twin flame. It physically and mentally hurts when you are not together.
  7. When you are with your twin and the relationship is in balance, you become stronger, more powerful, and more capable than you have ever felt. You feel united in a mission or “calling” to serve others and the world.
  8. Your unconditional love for your twin is like no other. He/she is likely to have a certain habit, quality, or “baggage” that would be a deal-breaker for you in any other relationship. However, you overlook it or willingly attempt to work through it — no matter what it takes.
  9. You met your twin when one or both of you were in other relationships or otherwise “unavailable.” It’s likely that you met when and where you were least consciously expecting it.
  10. Either you or your twin feared the power of the twin flame connection and ran from the relationship so as not to feel overwhelmed and/or vulnerable. Years may go by before you are both in the “place” to finally commit fully to the relationship.
  11. Those who run from the twin flame relationship finally “wake up” and realize the significance. This may come as the result of a loss, illness, or other personal catastrophe. It also can happen during times of twin flame separation as well. (More on Runner Dynamic later)
  12. No matter how many times you break up or separate, forces seems to bring you back together. You see the “signs” and reminders of that twin connection everywhere, urging you back together.
  13. Your relationship is characterized by extreme highs and lows, including passion and intense pain you’ve most likely never felt before.
  14. In efforts to unite, harmonize, and balance each other, you “push each other’s buttons” and test each other’s limits like no one else has or ever will.
  15. Friends, family members, and others in your circle can’t relate to the twin flame drama and always try to get you to move on to someone or something else that seems more logical or better for you “on paper.”
  16. The growth you experience, the lessons you learn, and the person you become in the twin flame relationship are more significant, happen more rapidly, and are more powerful than any other experience or period of growth in your life.
  17. You realize that your previous soul mates or other relationships prepared you for the twin flame reunion. Your twin flame may even have or embody a number of the unusual characteristics or outstanding attributes of your previous mates and soul friends.
  18. You feel as if you’ve been waiting your whole life for this person. When you look back at your life, you see illnesses, sabotaged relationships, or other situations that manifested because you were still waiting and still looking for “the one.”
  19. The more that you and your twin flame spend time together, the more rapidly and completely you awaken to higher consciousness.
  20. You have a deep knowing that your twin is your destiny– not just in this lifetime, but also when you ascend, return “home,” and are reunited for eternity.
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6 Comments 20 Signs you have found your Twin Flame

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  2. Patricia

    For me my twin flame experience happened online, last year October 2014 I saw a video of him online and I feel instantly connected like his singing to me (his singing by the way) and on Jan 11 I had this realistic vivid dream of him like were cuddling and one of his friends said “don’t worry, can do anything for you” my old schoolmate was also there and her bday is on the same day!!! Anyways after that I woke up and wrote the dream down 20mins after there was an earthquake, I also had vivid dreams of him short ones and one is on his bday. Then, on April 8 my cousin who happens to date his friend introduced me to him, coincidence? I think not, then on April 11 we started chatting, during this time his dating someone and her bday is Jan 11 :))) well anyway before I met him I had signs of like 11:11 or 6:11, I remember on 11/29/2014 I heard his first name on a female tennis match like the announcer called his name, lol, yea those were the good times, now, where in the separate stage his the runner I’m the chaser, we don’t talk that much now the only contact I have of him is my cousin, and my cousin also told me and her bf that they had dreams of us like being together they say its vivid. Anyway, I’m feeling something is going to happen, idk what but its a strange feeling like my while body senses something that’s going to happen. AND YOU WERE RIGHT that friends and family don’t get you on this experiences or signs of a twin soul they even asked me to find a more suitable person to fit in the role (we haven’t met in person just online)

  3. Lila May

    Just wandering..
    I met someone whom I believe to b my twinflame. I can feel his presence in the room with me even. When he is not around me physically..I miss him everyday…I have been separated from him for 8 long miserable years…it’s almost like I can feel his emotions
    he is always on my mind and he is definitely in my heart my love for him is unconditional I love him no matter what he’s done or how much he has hurt me..I find it very hard to let him go..and to not think about him. what should I do?

    1. Lola

      Lila May,

      Thank you very much for sharing some of your experience. I completely understand, and that is why I took a step back from the experience. I will be posting more soon and giving the best thoughts and advice that I can along the way.
      Keep strong in knowing – that you have experienced something amazing, even though painful at times.

      Namaste 🙂

  4. Kerry

    lovely post, thank you. I have a question that i cant find any answers to no matter how hard i look. I have been manifesting a meeting with a famous person just as fun to see how far i get and the one day i was doing a ascended masters card reading regarding my little project and i got a twin flame card saying the person i was enquiring about is my twin. i had no intention or even thought about twin flames before this. I did another reading specifically asking if he was and i drew a yes card. now i have been noticing some synchronicities but i want to know if there is a way i can validate this? what are the signs just before meeting ? the fact that i dont know this guy really makes it difficult to tell…..any help will be appreciated!


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