Ugh…Acceptance & Mediocrity

Happy Sunday my friends. 🙂

I received a couple of emails this week from people struggling with understanding their own Twin Flame experience and asking for advice. While I always preface my replies by saying I am “no expert”, I also started this blog to offer support and encouragement to others, and that I will always do.

My conversations with my new friends brought up two topics for discussion: Acceptance and Mediocrity.

There are two things that you MUST learn to accept when you are going through a Twin Flame union, or any relationship for that matter. 1. Never accept or allow anyone, including your TF to treat you as less than the beautiful and worthy soul you are, or offer you less than what you have to give in return. There will always be push and pull in relationships, and they are designed that way for a reason. This does not mean, however, that you should become a doormat for someone who is not ready to put in the work. 2. Accept the fact that your TF may NOT want what a true Twin Flame relationship is designed to bring, and may not weather the storm to find the rainbow on the other side.

This brings the second topic into consideration – Mediocrity. Because a true Twin Flame experience blows every other relationship you have ever encountered out of the water, this leaves many of us feeling a bit shorted if the Twin Flame union does not survive. I have said this before, and will say it again – Once you experience Extraordinary, you will never want to settle for Ordinary again. But that is my humble opinion – and for some people Ordinary = Easy and that is best for them.

There is no relationship on Earth that doesn’t require work. Finding your twin flame does not guarantee you a harmonious relationship initially, but what will guarantee it is your determination to work hard and continually learn from it and adapt. Spiritual detoxification begins when your Twin enters your experience.  Emotions and feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness are challenged because you can no longer remain mediocre at your soul’s request.

It is only then that you can truly start understanding how to use the strength that the twin flame union brings to your soul. Even if you believe with every part of you, that you have been fortunate enough to have found your Divine Love – if the other party isn’t on the same page, the story ends here. Take the power you now have from this experience, to enlighten and encourage others. Be the inspiration that gives others hope. You will love again, and it will be amazing. You are amazing.

Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.

Love & Light-



3 Comments Ugh…Acceptance & Mediocrity

  1. Al

    Hi, Lola. Lovely name.
    Just a little question – have you heard about Edgar Cayce? He was a great mystic/healer and his journeys to spirit realms and his work are well documented. So, there’s a book about Soulmates and he basically says that there’s no ‘one and only’ person for us, but just a number of people we had been together with in past lives and therefore now we feel attracted to them in this life. Also, his soul was really advanced because he could go to Akashic Records and obtain information from the Book of Records of other souls, and only a very advanced soul is permitted to look at the records of other souls in there, so I guess his knowledge about the life in spirit and soulmates is quite true and genuine.

    1. Lola

      Hi Al,
      Yes, in my journey I first heard of Edgar Cayce and his teachings. Interestingly enough, it caused me to start becoming licensed to read Akashic Records..I am through level 1 training so far, and it has been amazing 🙂
      Thank you for sharing, and my records were startlingly accurate to present day circumstances!


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